Cultural Awareness at Mission Honduras

It is important that volunteers at Mission Honduras are aware of the differences between American and Honduran cultures and respect those differences. As missionaries, we are not trying to turn Honduras into a small USA. We are there to serve the needs of the poor in accordance with God's laws and while respecting the culture of the Honduran people. Our actions represent us as Christians and as Americans, so we need to be conscious of the messages we send.

Living Conditions
At Mission Honduras, we try to live in solidarity with the poor. Our housing is similar to that of many Hondurans, though actually somewhat more comfortable than many of the very poor. Most mission buildings are of cement block construction with no paint. You will see many Honduran houses of similar type, and even some much nicer. However, you will also see people living in shacks made of mud and sticks and stones; and others of sticks and bits of tin or plastic sheeting.

The power at the mission is a fairly constant 110V and the outlets are the same as in the US. Outages are not too frequent, but they are not completely rare, either. There is no hot water, and the showers don't always have as much pressure as you might be used to. Many of the poorest of Honduras have neither electricity nor running water. They certainly can't afford the bottled water we provide for our volunteers (which is provided for health reasons).

The plumbing in Honduras leaves a lot to be desired. All pipes are PVC piping, which is sometimes exposed and therefore eventually punctured (or stolen). And since the systems aren't very strong, toilet paper cannot go down the drain, but must be put in a wastebasket. This makes for less than pleasant smells in the bathrooms. In fact, with the plumbing situation, the fact that most vehicles run on diesel, and all the garbage burning going on constantly (or the garbage lying about in the ditches and fields), the smells of Honduras are not very pleasing in general. In most of Honduras, the only official trash removers are the buzzards, which are protected from hunting by the Honduran government for their service to the country.

We try to keep our meals consistent with the meals of the children of the mission. The most common foods include beans, corn tortillas, rice, and eggs, with occasional chicken. For many Hondurans, "candy" consists of sweet fruits like bananas, mangos, and pineapples. There is also ample Coke and Pepsi, but it is mostly in glass returnable bottles. If you want your Coke to go (para llevar), don't be surprised when they pour it into a small plastic bag with a straw in it.

Dignity
It is difficult to have dignity and hopes and dreams of a better future if you don't even know how you can put the next day's food on the table. The average daily wage for many of the working poor in Honduras is about $2. Children often must work and/or beg to help feed their families. Many families are broken by alcohol abuse, physical and emotional abuse, and abandonment. Volunteers should not flash around large sums of cash both for their own safety and as a matter of respect. Volunteers should not be showy in their clothing/jewelry or attitudes.

The basic rule of the dress code is modesty. Long pants or long skirts and covered shoulders are appropriate. Shorts are only allowed on mission property at work sites or when playing sports. Even though Honduran women are starting to wear more skin-tight clothing, it's up to us to set a higher standard for ourselves. The dress code is enforced very strictly. Besides not wearing revealing or flashy clothing, volunteers should not look grungy either. Jeans and shorts are not allowed for Mass, and there are other times when you should show appropriate respect for the Hondurans.

Modesty is directly linked to dignity, which is often a casualty of poverty. Many adolescent Honduran girls feel that the only way they can be loved is to attract a man early on and have his baby, thinking that the man will then love her because of his love for the baby. Unfortunately the truth is that there are many young single mothers, abandoned by the fathers of their children. This cycle continues and perpetuates the helplessness and hopelessness of future generations.

Of course volunteers will want a photographic record of their trip to Honduras. When photographing a Honduran, remember to ask yourself, "Why am I taking this picture?" and "How would I feel if someone were taking this picture of me or my family for the same reason?" It is polite to ask permission before taking a picture, especially with adults or anytime away from the mission. The children of the mission are always eager to pose, but other Hondurans may become offended if you point and shoot with no regard for how that may make them feel.

Lifestyle
The pace of Honduran life is much slower than in the USA. That is not to say that they don't work as hard, but they just don't have the infrastructure for the typical American lifestyle. You'll often find yourself in "hurry up and wait" mode. Take such times to recognize the beauty around you while waiting, meditate, pray, practice your Spanish, or talk to a neighbor.

Life is lived on a much simpler basis, with many fewer material things. For many volunteers, this is a welcomed and refreshing experience.